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If You've Just Started
Treatment For Depression
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Take a bow! I mean it. You have just done one
of the hardest things anyone can do. You've admitted that your mood is out of
your control and have asked for help in regaining that control. It was
humiliating and degrading, but you went and did it. This is a feat like no
other and a real accomplishment. Pat yourself on the back, you deserve
it!
Now, if you are like most people (including
myself), your first step was talking to your family doctor, and very likely he
prescribed one of the newer anti-depressants (Prozac,
Zoloft,
Paxil,
Effexor,
Lexapro,
Wellbutrin). If this is true, please take this to heart:
the chances are not very good that the
anti-depressant
medication, alone, will cure you. It very well might, but the odds are it
isn't enough. You are probably going to need some kind of
therapy as well. I advise you to ask
your doctor for a referral to a counselor of some kind (a psychologist, social
worker, or psychiatrist who does counseling). It's best to begin this now,
early on in your treatment, as you are going to go through some changes, as the
medication begins to work.
You may think you don't need therapy and your
doctor may even have said so, too--but take it from me, I've been there, and
I've seen lots of others who've been there, too. All too often,
anti-depressant
medication alone is not enough. Your doctor may be a nice person and
all, but most general practitioners don't have a lot of psychiatric experience.
So don't believe him or her if she gave you the idea that therapy is
unnecessary. He or she is not an expert enough to know! Every case of
depression is unique. Find a counselor and at least have an evaluation to see
if therapy will help.
Having said that, I'll move on to a couple more
important points. One is patience. You are going to have to be patient.
Unfortunately, you will not get better overnight. It doesn't work that way.
Chances are it has taken weeks, months, or even years for you to reach this
point. Reaching this critical stage cannot be suddenly reversed. You will find
your recovery is sort of like an onion--you slowly peel away layers until you
finally reach the core of it. And this "peeling" takes time. Please
give your treatment a chance to work. You have nothing to lose by trying. And
you have everything to gain!
Another concept is acceptance. It's really
difficult to wake up everyday knowing that you have to face the handicap of a
mental illness. It's embarrassing for your emotions to be so out of control as
to require anti-depressant medication or therapy. I know this, believe me. But
depression is an illness, nothing more and nothing less. You have to accept you
are ill, before your treatment can really begin.
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