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Exposure Therapy for
Anxiety
Disorders, Panic Attacks
Exposure therapy is suggested to be one of the best ways to
overcome
your anxiety. To master something in life it is necessary first to think
about it, and then actually practice doing it. Remember when you first started
to learn how to drive. The more you practiced the better you became. This is
the basis of exposure therapy. You actually need to go into the
situation and think about it in a different way, implement the other skills and
knowledge you have to
mange your
anxiety, and then reflect on how it went.
There is a word of caution here. Some research suggests to 'face the fear
and do it anyway'. For some people this may work, however for others it
doesn't. Learning the skills and techniques of
cognitive therapy and
educating yourself on where your anxiety is actually coming from in the first
place, prior to exposing yourself to the situation, can often have better
outcomes as you can feel more in control before you enter the situation, rather
than going in feeling absolutely terrified.
When you feel anxious, it is suggested that you go through it firstly in
your mind (realistic thinking/skills of cognitive therapy), and secondly, put
yourself in the situation that you fear. This part is called exposure therapy.
If you continue to avoid
situations because you are feeling anxious, it only makes it harder to
overcome your anxiety. When you avoid doing something, you often convince
yourself that there is a very good reason why you are not doing it. If you
continue to avoid situations, no amount of thinking about it in another way
will actually help you overcome your anxiety in the situations. The more often
you do something, the easier it becomes each time. Remember the learning to
drive?
There are some helpful techniques
suggested to use when engaging in exposure therapy. Ron Rapee in his book, 'Overcoming Shyness and Social Phobia' suggests the
following techniques that can also be applied to all types of Anxiety
Disorders. These include:
One step at a time - don't jump in the deep end first. Take a
small step and work you way up to the most uncomfortable situations.
Stay in the situation - try not to leave if you suddenly feel
anxious. Rather, implement some of the other techniques such as rational
thinking, focusing, breathing and relaxation. Of course, if you absolutely have
to leave, then do - it is suggested that you try and do it again as soon as
possible. Alternatively, try and back away a little bit, instead of leaving the
situation completely.
Repeats - doing something once can be interpreted as a fluke! The
more often you do something, the more you will start to feel more comfortable
(the more techniques you implement, the greater the ability you will have to
control your anxiety)
Ups and Downs - these are a part of life, and some days you will
have good days, and some days
you will not
have such good days. Try not to beat yourself up on the not so good days by
engaging in negative self talk. Rather, accept it for what it is - a not so
good day!! Go back to the drawing board and set your goals a little lower until
you are feeling stronger and more confident again.
Be aware of avoidance - try and be aware of all your avoidances.
By not doing something that you fear, you are only making it harder for
yourself. Avoidance is only an excuse and keeps your fears going. If you have
engaged in some anxiety education, you will be more aware that it is you who is
controlling your anxiety, so it is you who can decrease and manage it as well.
It just takes some practice (and patience!!!) It is also important to try and
be aware of subtle avoidance when overcoming high levels of anxiety. For e.g.
You might go to a party and talk to only a few people you know well, avoiding
meeting new people. Or you might travel 10 miles to go to a shop rather than
visit the large shopping centre 1 mile from your home.
Everyone has different fears and experiences different levels of anxiety in
different situations. It is important to try and overcome all your avoidances
using the
techniques of exposure therapy.
Reference
Rapee,R.M., (1998), Overcoming Shyness and Social Phobia', Chapter 6, pg.
61-75, passim, Lifestyle Press.
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